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Social networking on sites such as
Facebook (www.facebook.com) and MySpace (www.myspace.com)
has become a common form of communication
among teenagers. Pediatricians must
develop an understanding of what occurs on
social networking sites in order to
communicate with their teenage patients
and to provide anticipatory guidance to
teens and their families about safety
considerations when using these online
social sites.
Facebook is one of the most popular sites
for social networking. It is based on
networks of high schools, colleges,
workplaces, and geographic regions. Each
user’s profile can be seen only by members
of the same network or by people in other
networks who are invited to be a “friend”
and whose invitation is accepted. Facebook privacy settings can be
customized to restrict access to
information.
Facebook users share information about
themselves and communicate with friends,
or other people in their network. This
can be particularly valuable for incoming
freshmen looking to meet people at their
college, or as a way for former members of
a school or program to keep in touch. Many
teenagers frequently use it for social
communication with friends.
On Facebook,
each individual has a profile in which
they share some personal information. This
profile can include the user’s name,
pictures, personal interests, and phone
numbers. Only members of the network can
see a person’s profile, unless that person
adds an outsider as a friend (which must
be approved by both people involved).
An individual
also can adjust privacy settings so that
only friends, and not an entire network,
can see their profile. Even members
of a network must “friend” an individual
before they can write on each other’s
“walls.” The wall is a portion of the
profile page that everyone with access to
the profile can see.
Another form of communication often used
by Facebook members is the message,
similar to an e-mail. Anyone can send a
message to someone on Facebook, but only
the individual or individuals receiving
the message can see the content. Others in
the network would not be able to see
messages on someone else’s Facebook page.
It is not necessary to “friend” the sender
in order to read the message they sent and
there is an option to block the sender if
necessary. Students on Facebook also may
communicate via instant messaging, but
only with their friends.
Unlike profiles on MySpace, complete
Facebook profile pages cannot be accessed
through search engines such as Google.
Facebook blocks all information except a
name, thumbnail profile picture, and
limited aggregated data. This gives
Facebook an added safety benefit over
MySpace, a fact primary care providers
should keep in mind when providing
guidance to families.
One very important recommendation for all
teens and their families is that teens
should communicate online only with people
they know in person. This rule should be
enforced whether they are on Facebook,
instant messaging, or e-mailing. On
Facebook they should “friend” only people
they know and confirm that they know them
by looking at their profile. Parents
should regularly discuss this with their
teens and ensure that they comply with
this important safety requirement. An
exception to this rule might be made for
freshman heading off to college. It can be
helpful during this transition to network
with other incoming freshman, even those
they have not yet met.
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